
It seems like this time of the year should be a happy time but it people expect too much of the holidays and then become unhappy.
WebMD says the 5 Things That Make People Happy are when:
They find their most golden self “striving toward excellence based on one’s unique talents and potential.” If you are the candy maker, make candy. Don’t try to be the bread baker.
They design their lives to bring in joy–so many people spend time on things they don’t like. If wrapping gifts is not your “bag,” buy gift bags or small garbage bags and “call it good.” They want what is inside anyway.
They avoid “if only” fantasies–we are bad about predicting what makes us happy. Accept what you bought for gifts or what you made for the meals and don’t “if only.”
They put best friends first–social engagement is one of the most important contributors to happiness and longer periods with a friend rather than dashing around chatting with acquaintances is essential. Spend more time with the ones you like the most and make you the most comfortable and you will be happier.
They allow themselves to be happy–many of us are convinced that it’s wrong to be happy (or too happy)–we feel that we can’t take care of our happiness until we have made others happy. Enjoy the holidays and don’t worry so much if the others are enjoying it. Don’t let them bring down your happiness.
So one of the best baby gifts you can give your child is to be HAPPY and enjoy the holidays.


My grandmother was born on Christmas Day and, when I was little, I thought that her birthday was overshadowed by everyone celebrating Christmas. She explained to me that it was just the opposite. She had Christmas Eve at her tiny home and everyone was there to celebrate Christmas AND her birthday. Her husband had died on December 19 the year before I was born and he made sure that she promised to ALWAYS celebrate Christmas Eve and her birthday, even if he wasn’t there. 

